hehe, it's easy to say but maybe not easy to do. "曾经被一个才华很高又细心体贴的小伙子爱到痛下决心恨不得马上逃去国外。" This is because you don't love him, not because you were afraid to lose freedom. If you really love this guy, then the only feeling you would have is happiness. Love is always selfish, when people fall in love with someone, to possess him/her is the instinct. I don't think anything wrong with it. And because of this common instinct, people want to get married. That's a promise, and also the responsibility, and you need to sacrifice some freedom as the price. People who betray the love they ever promised should be blamed, shamed. But to hate them will not make you feel better, maybe even more pain, so the best way to face someone you loved and loved you finally choose to leave is forget him/her, cause they don't deserve any your emotion, do not waste any time, energy on them. And you should live a better life than theirs. |
呵呵,有魄力
而且也的确很理智
